2003 Thanksgiving Message (11/03)

A Message from Bishop John Elya

Annunciation Cathedral

(To be read from the pulpit or to be distributed with the bulletin)  

 

To the priests, deacons, religious, and laity of the Eparchy of Newton for the Melkite Catholics in the United States .

As we celebrate this season of Thanksgiving, my heart is filled with thanks to the Lord for all His blessings. I thank God for my successful triple bypass surgery on November 3, and for my restored good health. Thank God! I feel stronger by the hours.

“One thought to make you fight a little longer:

What does not kill you outright makes you stronger.”

I thank God for all the prayers and blessings I received from all of you, the clergy and the faithful of our Melkite Eparchy, and the many friends who have accompanied my journey in God’s love through the years  I am truly grateful to each of you, and I love you all very much. “I thank my God always when I remember you in my prayers.” (Philemon 1:4)

I also thank almighty God for my family, my friends, and above all for my priestly and religious vocation. I thank our Lord Jesus Christ the High Priest for calling me and sharing His priesthood with me. I thank God for His confidence in me to call me to serve as Bishop and then as Eparch of our wonderful diocese. I pray for you all and I ask forgiveness of any one I have hurt or offended in any way over the years.

In his Letter to the Colossians Saint Paul instructs the Early Christians,  Be thankful.” (Colossians 3:15b) This same advice he also gives to the Christian Community at Thessalonica. “Rejoice always, pray constantly, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” I Thessalonians 5:16-18

Joy is a sure sign of the presence of the Holy Spirit. A grateful heart produces a joyful heart. Developing an “attitude of gratitude” is a powerful way of making the individual joyful. Praise of God is another great way producing a joyful and joy-filled heart. In our Eastern life of prayer every morning we sing the praises of God during the second part of Orthros.

One powerful way of singing the praises of the Lord is the ‘poly-eleos’ (Psalm 136) The psalms are filled with thanks to Lord and the praise of the Lord. In the Divine Liturgy we receive our blessed Lord Jesus Christ in the Eucharist. The word, ‘Eucharist,’ in Greek means ‘Thanksgiving.’

We must be careful not to allow a negative spirit to overpower us.  Speech is very important in the life of us Christians. Words can build up, and words can tear down. The great Father of the Desert, Abba Poemen, taught his disciples, “Teach your mouth to say that which is in your heart.” His thought is rooted in Saint Paul who teaches us, “Let no evil talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for edifying, as fits the occasion, that it may impart grace to those who hear. (Ephesians 4:29) “Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer every one.” (Colossians 4:6) Complaining, grumbling, and gossip are to the devil what praise, joy, and thanksgiving are to the Lord. The following verse that was quoted in a recent newsletter in the Eparchy sums up quite well the destructive power of speech.

THE SNAKE THAT POISONS EVERYBODY   It topples governments, wrecks marriages, ruins careers, rusts reputations, causes heartaches, nightmares, indigestion, spawns suspicion, generates grief, dispatches innocent people to cry in their pillow. Even the name hisses. It's called gossip, office gossip, shop gossip, party gossip. It makes headlines and headaches.
Before you repeat a story, ask yourself---- Is it true? Is it fair? Is it necessary? Do you want it said about you? If not, shut up!!!” 
[United Technologies published this as an ad in the Wall Street Journal] (quoted in Newsletter of Saint Basil Salvatorian Center, Methuen , Massachusetts , Fall, 2003)

In the Near Eastern background, in which our Melkite Traditions were born, gratitude and thanksgiving play a huge role. How many times in a day we say, or better said, we pray, “We praise God! We thank God!” (NHimdilla! Nushkur Allah!”  We honor God and praise Him by thanking Him for everything. We thank God for the good in our life. We thank God for our struggles. We know that in all things God is present with us, caring for us, and holding us in His loving and tender embrace. “We know that all things work for good for those who love God, who are called according to His Purpose.” (Romans  8:28)

Living with an ‘attitude of gratitude’ makes us a joy to be with. It keeps us humble. It encourages others. It strengthens families and enhances parishes. An ‘attitude of gratitude’ makes us more understanding, more compassionate, and more willing to forgive. It glorifies God while strengthening and blessing the one who is grateful.

On another personal note, I would like to thank all the parishes and all the individuals who remembered me so kindly for my 75th birthday this fall. I found the love, prayers, flowers, cards, wishes, and gifts overwhelming. Thank you one and all. I pray for you all daily, both in my offering of the Divine Liturgy as well as the praying of the Divine Office. God bless you.

+ John A. Elya

Eparch of Newton


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